Today focus on what you want in life, and compete like heck to get it. Stop thinking of life in terms of wins and losses, and start thinking that you can "Win Forever" everyday. See your vision, create your plan, then execute it like crazy competing to do the best you can do. If you fail, make a mistake or misstep, just see it as part of the process----and WIN anyways.
For more info about Pete Carroll's Win Forever philosophy check out his great book by clicking the book cover to the left, or visit WinForever.com